Thursday, January 18, 2018

VALUEURSELF


You are better than what you say!
When people put themselves down, its a cop-out. They'll say, 
“Oh, I’m not that talented."
"I'm not good enough."
"I won't make it.”
"I'm not as good as they are." 
These are the comments I get on my email by several woman who write to me daily. I need to bring this to your attention. Do you see what this is doing to your hope, your passion, your gift of life? 
Comparing yourself to others, is the thief of all Joy!
I'm proof that feeling this way is not the way to go. I have been put down, told my plan to help others would never work. I was told, this is not what I'am looking for as the door gently closed. Do you know how grateful I am to those who didn't believe in me? There opinions fueled my success? 
You must believe in you. You must stand tall and never quit. You can make a difference. Get involved with your gift, and share it with the world. 
You need to begin every day, and boldly say; 
I’m amazing.
I am equipped,
I am empowered!
Today, make the decision to stop putting yourself down; stop focusing on your flaws and comparing yourself to others. It’s time to get in agreement and realize how special you are!
Make the shift by changing your words, and MOST importantly believe in yourself.
Many Blessings!
You can reach out to me anytime. www.coffeewithamilia.com
I look forward to your emails. 
Amilia Powers



Tuesday, January 16, 2018

VALUEURSELF


Remember the TIME!
This is an interesting title in so many ways. The email I recently received asked, "where has time gone, I was so happy, I got lost in the minutes?"
My answer was, I don't want you to forget that time. You can change every minute on the clock, and choose to live in joy, rather than hurt, or pain.
Can you recall the time when you use to laugh so hard it hurt your stomach? That belly laugh that was so contagious everyone joined in! The smiles you had that were pure and loving, and natural because you didn't have to hide your happiness. The joy you had being around friends and family. How about the time your eyes sparkled with excitement seeing the fireworks light up the sky.
Look at the TIME, where are you right now?? What time frame can you say your in?? I don't want you to just exist. I want you to live, and laugh, smile have joy in your life. If you are not living this way, you must reach out.
Remember...it's your clock, your choice, your time. Don't waste another minute...Every second counts.
You can contact me at: www.coffeewithamilia.com
LET'S TALK!
We can work together on the life you deserve.
Have a Blessed Day!
AMILIA
(There are more posts that will help you here on this page, please read.)


Monday, January 15, 2018

VALUE UR SELF



Truth, Wisdom, and Compassion live for ever...
"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." - Martin Luther King Jr.

Sunday, January 14, 2018

VALUE UR SELF


Stand Up for Yourself!
I have received many questions on this subject, let me explain.
People will treat you how you teach them to. They will test you to see how much they can get away with, and when they find your weakness they will walk all over you... 
They also will begin to put you down. You will have no say in the matter. You will start to feel you have no ground to stand on. You will begin to question yourself. They will make you think you're the crazy one. If any of this sounds familiar, please don't let this be you. 
There is no reason to hold onto something that is so wrong. Let me ask you a few questions. Please be honest with yourself. Let's begin:
1.) Is this the life you always dreamed of?
2.) Is this the love you've always wished you had?
3.) Are you smiling more than you ever have before?
4.) Are you laughing so much that it feels amazing? 
Let's start off with these questions first. I have many questions to answer in my email. We will go over more of them tomorrow. 
Just like we check our checkbook, we need to check and take notice what is going on in our lives. 
-Don't hold yourself back on a life you really want.
-Don't be the person, who is consistently making excuses for being treated disrespectfully.
-You are wonderful, a woman who deserves to be loved the right way.
-Kindness is not hard. Love is not hard. Being cherished is not hard. 
We make it harder than it is....
Maybe you're asking how??
By staying in a relationship without value. This is what is holding you back from the life you really want isn't it? 
On my last post I gave you an option, to start a new beginning by doing some simple steps... 
PLEASE do them.
You can reach me at: www.amiliapowers.com
Please email me. I will get back to you. Or you will find your answers here.
I have many articles that can help you. Please take the time and read them.
Have a Blessed day!
Amilia Powers


Saturday, January 13, 2018

VALUE UR SELF



Don't spend the day hurting
I received many emails about how to handle emotions after a break-up. I understand this very well, it's a hard thing to do. I've been through this. I didn't know how to express joy, and love. I forgot I could smile. I was watching people having fun, and it became overwhelming. I knew I could laugh and have fun, because I've done it before! But I didn't know how to start over. 
I will give you an example on where to begin: I began to unclutter my heart. Getting rid of things that held bad memories. I emptied my pain, my hurt, disappointments. I deleted phone numbers that no longer held value for me. Holding on wasn't helping me at all. This needed to get done. By doing this very important step I opened the door that I thought was closed for ever. I never thought I would smile again. Smiling is one of the most cherished gifts we were given at birth. It belonged to me, no one else. No one had the right to it but me. I almost gave it away. 
Please get my e-book and start today to change your life. What you'll find are simple steps that changed my life. Your heart will begin to open, you will soon find joy, and a sense of peace. Your heart will start to feel lighter.
We can talk more.
You can reach me at: www.amiliapowers.com
Please pick up a copy of my eBook:
https://valueurself.com/…/pro…/attract-the-love-of-your-life
Have a blessed day.
Amilia Powers


Friday, January 12, 2018

VALUEURSELF



Today my post is about trust:
I missed all of you yesterday. I couldn't get to your emails until this morning. My partner and I have finished a three part meditation series that we will get out to you by next week. 
We are very excited about this. These meditations are about believing and trusting the Lord during the most difficult of times.
People write to me and ask, how did you get through your pain? How did you see past the sorrow and hurt? How did you stay in faith and not lose yourself in bitterness, and self-pity?
How did you remain strong, and not give up?
My answer to all these questions are very simple. I knew God had my back. I knew that I needed to keep people in my life that lifted me up, no negative talk. The key here is to ask the Lord for guidance, for strength, for assistance, and he in return will send you the people you need in your life to help you. You need to believe, and trust in him. You must ask the right questions. 
In this meditation series, you will have first hand what I have done to overcome. 
Every Prayer, every thought, every feeling.
I look forward in sharing this with you.
You can reach me anytime if you have any questions.
www.coffeewithamilia.com
Have a blessed day!
AMILIA POWERS


Wednesday, January 10, 2018

VALUEURSELF



REACH OUT!
Thank you for responding to my last post. I enjoyed reading the emails I have received. I came across an email that I believe you can relate to. At one time in my life I could relate to it also.
This is a young woman who is hurt. She was pained by a man she loved. We all have similar stories. But her email was a bit different. This is what she said. "Mamm, how do you know so much about this situation? I don't think anyone would ever understand what it is like to have this much hurt. I reached out for assistance and no one would give me a hand, I need your help!" 
What do you think my answer was? My answer was this; What I went through, made me who I am today. I became inspired and remained in praise. In faith I gained the strength to push through and reach out to you. 
My experience qualifies me to help you, and you will help others as well. Remember nothing is easy. There is pain, before you gain strength, there is loneliness before you find joy. There is hurt before you find happiness. There is no situation easier than another.
I had to heal, forgive, and become kind to myself. I learned, and understood I deserve to live a life full of joy and kindness. Also keep my faith at hand. We are the individuals who can project change.
We can do this one step at a time. The good news is We can do this. Lets all work together.
You can reach me at: www.amiliapowers.com
You are not alone.
Have a blessed day!
I have many articles here at valueurself.com that can help you. Please read them.
AMILIA POWERS