This Is Not Okay!
What do you think happens when you say everything is Okay to a Narcissist? You get more abused!
Everything is not Okay. Stop pacifying the pain, and pretending that everything is fine with getting hurt pained, and mentally abused. Is this what you really believe love should feel?
Yes, you fell in love. You believe that there are better days on the way. You want to give him chances to change. The confusion comes when one day is incredible, and the next day is pure torment. We hold on to every memory of that amazing day, we lose sight of what just happened to us. Unfortunately, our heart gets sucked in, and we have a hard time seeing what is happening to us.
I know this story very well. I lived it. I hoped and prayed that things would be different. That he would go back to the person that I first met. Kind loving and attentive. I wished that there was some sort of magic that would turn back the clock to the day we first set eyes on each other. Obviously, wishing is full of broken promises. What I received in return was more abuse more pain and tears of loneliness.
I became so caught up with holding on and pretending that my life with him was wonderful and loving, pleasing him at every moment. I forgot about my own life. There wasn't a friend in arm's length. I kept my family at a distance. I knew the position I was in. In reality, I didn't want my family and friends to see what was going on. Playing make-believe was my only means of survival, in hopes of change. I was lost in darkness.
I was hooked on a relationship based on the first phase. I refused to believe that it was abuse. I would say to myself "This couldn't be happening he said he loves me. We had an amazing time last night." The cycle repeated itself day after day, weeks, and months. I was sucked into a life of torment.
What happened to the strong, Intelligent financially stable woman I was? I was used for having a good heart and punished by saying everything is Okay.
If you are doing this, please stop. It's not OK!
If you are making excuses for what you just read. Please Stop that right now. There is nothing right about pain, hurt, or any kind.
I'm a woman who's been through all of the things you are going through. A woman whose life was slammed against the wall. A woman's advice you can trust. A woman who found her way through the darkest of times. I woke up every morning praising God, and never giving up hope. I praised him in good times, and when I was cursed at. He saw me through. I never gave up on me. I will never let you give up on you.
Having love in our lives is amazing. We all know how that feels, but the right type of love is very important. Don't waste another minute. There's nothing more exciting than a woman who is happy and has her voice, please remember that.
You can reach out to me, and I can help guide you through the process. I will answer any questions or concerns you may have.
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