I know every one of us have had something happen to us we don't understand. When things come up that don’t make sense, things that we can’t figure out, instead of getting frustrated or confused, we seemingly give ourselves permission not to understand what is happening. We instead tend to "own" this as a part of our journey, and try to let that be still.
If you go through life trying to figure out why something bad happened, or why things didn’t work out, it will cause you to become bitter and stuck in life. We have to trust our plan, especially when things don't make any sense, and embrace the joy, and love that is ahead of us.
Our eyes can only see today, but our heart has the vision for tomorrow, and our future.