LIVING WITH BROKEN PIECES--WHAT HAVE I DONE?

People wondered why?

Living through a time of abuse is never easy. Staying in hope became even harder for me. I prayed so much for the relationship to end. I didn't care how it was going to end, I prayed hard for something anything to happen to make all this go away. I wanted my life back, I wanted to smile and laugh and have joy. These simple things that seem so far out of reach for me. I was paying a price for someone else's demons.  

I remained in prayer. I spoke in silence to the Lord every day and every chance I had for guidance and assistance. Driving to work was my release. I would turn up the volume on the radio in the car to a Christian station and listened to the praise, and I would yell out loud, for my relationship to come to close, I asked day in and day out for the lord to take me out of this pain. I screamed in tears for the Lord to take him out of my life, and send him on his way. 

My prayers, lead me out of torment. Believe me when I tell you my faith gave me peace. I began to become stronger, and more focused on my life. I started to understand that this wasn't my last stop, It wasn't a mistake it was the wrong partner, and that love is beauty. I understood that being in Love shouldn't feel terrible or hurtful. It helped me see that life is full of circumstances, and situations, but God is bigger than anything we will ever go through and any situation we feel tied to, and I needed to trust in him that he will see me through, that he will not leave me in a place of hurt, pain, and abuse. We are his children, and all he asks us to do is believe in him. 

When I handed everything over to the Lord, I found peace. I knew it was a matter of days before things would change, I was patient and trusted him. I gave him my worry of uncertainty, the Lord sent me the right people to help me. He gave me the courage to stand tall and not give up. The best thing of all he believed in me, and that I would follow his directions. He didn't let me fall. He answered every one of my prayers.

People asked me, why I didn't I retaliate and go after my abuser. I told them I have peace with my decision to leave it alone. I prayed for him to leave my life. I prayed to have my life back, I prayed that my pain and hurt would heal. I didn't have any use to run after someone or anyone who caused me harm. From that day he left, I never looked back, I was never curious, not a thought in my mind. 

When pain is this deep, you don't question your position.

I began to write down my prayers and noticed that I can reach out and help women overcome these obstacles. I turned my prayers into meditations. I'm helping women all across the country stand up and take notice of their life. They have overcome struggles and pain, from being at war with their heart. A place I know very well.

I created personalized meditations from their own experience and helped women lift the weight in their heart, and begin to find themselves surrounded by joy and love.

I'm very thankful and grateful every day for the good times and for the bad times, they have brought me to where I'm today. Being able to share this with you, and changing lives, is a blessing. You too can have the life you are meant to live

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Amilia

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Rise Beyond Verbal Abuse--Forgiveness

STOP YELLING AT ME!

Good Afternoon. I have received several emails about verbal abuse. Being cursed at seems to hurt women more. I couldn't believe the questions I read. Let me share a few of these questions with you. Maybe you can help me?

1. "I love him but he calls me names, what do I do?"

2. "He curses at me when he is frustrated. I know he doesn't mean it. What do I do?"

3. "I feel as if he is always putting me down. What do I say to make him stop.?"

What would you tell these woman, in their situation?

Here's my answer. There is a lack of respect for these women. This is what all three questions that I received are telling me. How about you?

I don't care how much you love him, how bad he might be frustrated with who knows what, or how bad he feels about himself to put you down. Let me give you the Bottom line here. It is directed at you, the swearing is intentional. His problem is not your problem. He obviously has underlying issues you will never be able to correct, and staying with someone like this will cause you pain, and destruction that you don't deserve.

All of those questions above are excuses coming from these women. No one has a right to treat anyone this way. We have to take inventory of our life with this person, and a different position with them. 

First how much are you willing to tolerate?

I understand every situation is different. But you have to stand up for yourself. You didn't sign up for this. You wanted to be loved and adored. It is a must to let him know how you feel. If you are frightened of the outcome and you have become silent in your relationship, you need to reach out to family and close friends and let them know you are afraid. When this person picks up on the fact you are scared, he will use this against you and create a scenario that isn't true and try to destroy any means of happiness you have after they are gone. 

Time doesn't play a role in this. In order for things to change. You hold the power to do so. No-one can take that from you. I know this from my own experience.

You're asking how do I know this? I knew in my heart this was coming. You have to know who you are dealing with. I prepared myself for the worst. I prayed and meditated and remained at peace with whatever was being thrown at me. I didn't feel alone. I knew the good Lord was guiding me. I knew it wouldn't be long before it was cleared up and I would be able to live the life I was created to live. 

I would sit in silence and ask the lord any question I felt in my heart. All I could feel was the strength, faith, and believe that this will pass. This wasn't the story the Good Lord wrote for me. I knew this wasn't the end of my journey. My life started after the storm had passed. 

I'm thankful and feel so blessed every day for the wonderful loving life God has given me.

I'm letting you know that the problem will not go away, and it will get worse.
Make sure you inform close friends and family and make everyone aware of how you are treated. You will need support from them. Your safety comes first. This treatment is unacceptable.

If you are stuck. Join the thousands of women who have changed their lives with my personalized meditations. They are unique and created for your own personal needs.

People tell me all the time, I can't shut off the noise long enough to meditate. Let me tell you a little secret. When the mediation is created for your own personal circumstances, you tune right into it. There isn't any noise that will ever interfere with that and trying to find a solution.

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Have a blessed day!
AMILIA POWERS

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In my next blog, we will talk about staying off of social media. Yes, I already know what you are thinking. "He is saying this and that." I have to tell you something you will probably not like. "Who Cares."

I can give you some sound advice that I used myself.
"Shhhhh-put it in the Good Lords Hands."

I will walk you through it. 

Talk soon.
Amilia

Stress Let's Break-Up--Toxic Relationship

I would like to ask a question?
Do you have a lot of stress in your relationship?

Dear Stress, It's Time,

Nothing can prepare you for living with someone whose behavior is unpredictable and devastating, draining, hurtful, and ultimately the most unkind experience imaginable. This feels as if they have more control over your thoughts then you.

This brings on so many different emotions. Anxiety, depression, lack of interest in your happiness. You begin to just exist. Silence becomes a way of life, and you know it won't be long before this triggers an argument or fight. 

Not standing up for your self and suppressing your feelings is a very unhealthy way to go about things, especially when those feelings are silenced and full of discontent. Conflict is inevitable.

Just the sound of their voice causes you stress. You don't know what is going to come out of their mouth next. You decide that you will stay out of their way. You start to become anxious about the thought of them coming home or even spending time with them. At this point, you begin to feel overwhelmed. Your emotions are pushing you right through the door but at the same time your afraid to take that first step.

In your heart you know you have to end this relationship, your health is at risk because of the stress your mind and body is under. You're tired of being criticized, laughed at and ridiculed day after day. There hasn't been any happiness for as long as you can remember. 

Your a woman who deserves love and kindness, compliments and joy. A man that will treasure you. Stand beside you with your dreams and passions. 

You must break-up with your stress first. You're probably wondering what do I mean? Just what I said. If you don't take control of your feelings and your situation it will become worse. Tension will rise, and you put yourself and your family at risk for whatever happens next.

Disconnecting from stress and stop focusing on what he's doing, and more on what you need to do will help you get a firm grip on your situation. You will gain more confidence, and you will become stronger and healthier and better equipped to handle what is ahead of you. 

Never forget who you are in any circumstance, most of all never let anyone control the love you have in your heart, and never give up wanting to live the life you were created to live.

Always remember safety first. Let your family and friends, people that are close to you know what is going on, that way they can support you through these times. It's going to be difficult at first, but you can do this. You know in your heart, this isn't the way love is supposed to be. 

Please Please, don't forget you hold the power over your own life. No one has the right to harm, or mistreat you. Continue being an amazing woman, and share your kindness and love, but extend it to the ones who love you and respect you and enjoy everything about you.

Leave me a message, with your contact information and the best time to reach you, and I will guide you through the process. amiliapowers@gmail.com

If you are stuck, join thousands of women who have changed their lives with my 

"Personalized meditation," that is created for your own personal circumstances, and situation.

The biggest myth is people believing that they cannot shut off the noise long enough to meditate. Let me tell you a little secret. When the Meditation is personalized, you tune right into your life and solution. There isn't any sound that will affect this. It is the most incredible experience you will ever have.

Start today and live the life you deserve, click the link at the bottom of the picture. 

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Be blessed,

I look forward to speaking with you.

We will continue our conversation on Wednesday.

Amilia Powers

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I Understand Your Pain

How Do I Forgive

In the article, Who are we convincing? We spoke about understanding where you are in your relationship, there was a question I asked you read. If you didn't get a chance to read this article, please do so. This is a continuation of our conversation. What did you feel about your answer? Here is the question again. How long can we continue to play the convincing role with ourselves and the people around us? We are playing a hardball with our heart. Stop It.

The cost of staying in a relationship without value becomes a lonely place. Remember how important your smile is to you, your laugh, and joy. When was the last time you felt loved? 

Understanding your pain is very important. When we acknowledge that love isn't supposed to feel any way but incredible, we need to change our circumstances. 

We have to stop telling ourselves that we love the person who is hurting us. We tend to make this mistake time and time again. We must stop believing that they will change, and treat us better. We have already trained them to treat us disrespectfully. We must take responsibility for our happiness because they will not, and they will continue doing to us what we allow them to do.

I understand your pain because I have been there. The best thing I have ever done was being able to understand my pain, and where it was coming from. First, don't blame yourself for falling in love with the wrong person, and secondly, don't punish yourself for simply being human. Most importantly you should not keep this inside. You will begin to feel frustrated and alone. Third, please forgive yourself, because it's not your battle, it's theirs.

No one deserves to live alone in a relationship. When you are going through this, it feels as if no one can hear you. You become completely silent, and your silence begins working against you. Your heart shuts down to the outside world. At this point you would like someone, anyone, to pull you out of this bad dream. 

It's very important to understand, that people who hurt others intentionally are people who are hurt themselves. This is no excuse for their behavior, and you should never accept this type of treatment. They need to take responsibility for themselves and get some help. You are not their savior.

While they are trying to figure out themselves, you need to begin to start to make some decisions. I have two questions for you.

1. Are you willing to compromise your happiness, your joy, and your life and stay in a destructive relationship?

2. Are you going to take complete control and responsibility of your life, and your happiness, and begin to live the life you were created to live?

This is a very difficult time, but it isn't a difficult choice. It's alright to be upset, It's not wrong to cry.
What's wrong is to be with someone who is hurtful, and unkind, who has no regard for you.

Please speak to family friends, and explain to them what is going on in your life. I'm sure they will be open and understanding and helpful. You have hidden your pain from everyone, and it's time to let them know what is happening so they can help guide you and protect you while you go through these challenges.

You can reach out to me, and leave me a message and the best time to reach you. I will do my best to help you through the process.

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I recommend you try my series of MP3's, Meditations. "Healing The Broken Hearted" is the one I would start off with, in this situation. This helped me through a very dark time in my life, and I know it will help you.

This meditation is for those seeking to mend their broken heart and wanting to ease their pain. As well as those who have suffered the injustice of another.

You will be guided with comfort, renew your strength, and feel your power restored.

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You are not alone, 
Be Blessed
Amilia

Watch for the next article, I will begin to answer email questions right here.
I'm blessed to be with you. Be safe. Have a great weekend. We will talk Sunday.


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Breaking Through a Life of Pain--Healing

When was your break through?

Hello Everyone! I hope your day is going well.

When was your breakthrough?

Think about this for a minute.

Let me explain. 

I made a decision to walk away from things, people who didn't serve a purpose in my life. These people were the ones who put down everything that I was trying to do. They tried every which way they could to find fault with what I was trying to accomplish. I knew in my heart letting go was a must.

I started to become closely connected with the ones who loved me and supported my dreams and goals.

I thought that I wouldn't be able to break free from the ordinary and all the negative defeating small talk that I allowed being my source of power. 

I thought it would be hard, it was the most liberating feeling I had ever felt. Staying in that familiar place, what I saw with my eyes limited me. By breaking free and opening up my heart along with faith, I learned that I can see further than I ever imagined. Leaving people and things behind that held me back wasn't an option, it was something I needed to do. I knew doing the same thing day after day, was only giving me the same result. I began to explore new opportunities.

The world was bigger than the capsule I allowed myself to live in. 

When I began my journey of learning and traveling, I have grown from my own experiences.

Great risk produces amazing rewards. 

Believe in your gift enough for change. It's not easy by any means. You have to tone things down a bit. Simplify your life to move forward to live the life you really want. I did whatever it took to make it possible for me. I just didn't wake up and say I needed to change my situation. I went ahead and did everything I could. I asked questions, met people with the same purpose. I learned every chance I could. I would wake up early morning hours searching for better ways to take myself to the next level. I followed great mentors and learned from their expertise.

I stuck with it and stayed consistent. I did this every day without a glitch. As doors began to open for me I stayed humble and didn't tell anyone what I was doing. I let the people that I helped, and touched their lives, do that for me.

Stick with your plan and do whatever it takes. I believe that Living to help others is the largest gift you can give yourself. The challenges in our lives is our expertise. 

1. We embraced it

2. We understand it

3. People are ready to learn from it

If you are stuck, join the thousands of people who have changed their lives with my personalized meditations created specifically for your own circumstances. 

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Let's get going.

Your dreams are important, your gift is important. 

Leave me a message.

I look forward to working with you. 

Be blessed

Amilia

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The biggest myth is people believing to not shut off the noise long enough to meditate. Let me tell you a little secret. When the meditation is personalized you tune right into your life and solution.

There isn't any sound that will affect this. It is the most incredible experience you will ever have.

Be blessed,
I look forward to speaking with you.
Leave me a message and the best time to reach you.
I will guide you through the process
Amilia
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