It's not wrong to show emotion
Never apologize for being upset. You have a right to your feelings, and when someone hurts you and pains you in any way shape or form, your thoughts don't come out right. It's understandable to become defensive over these challenges. You are bound to have a negative reaction, your entire being is vulnerable.
Did you ever hear the saying mind over matter? Sometimes anything goes when you are heartbroken or in despair. It's ok to cry, it's not even wrong to want attention. At this stage you are angry and your insides are throwing you around. You don't have enough clarity to communicate calmly or rationally.
This is called being human. No one prepares you for the unexpected. We don't walk through life thinking that the worst is going to happen. It doesn't matter how you were raised, or how smart you are. We don't see this coming.
People talk about warning signs, and what to watch out for. This isn't correct on so many different levels. Once we allow our heart access to someone else, we can only think good thoughts. We are invested in that person. When the relationship goes sour, we have to decide when it is time to walk away. It doesn't matter how many people tell us to leave, and give us their opinion, we have the final say about what happens in our life, and how we want to live it.
Feeling a sense of loss is not a sign of weakness, the last thing you should be doing is blaming yourself and dissecting every little act of unkindness that has happened. You don't deserve the punishment your giving yourself. You shouldn't feel embarrassed because you didn't do anything wrong. The only unfortunate part was you were in love with the wrong person.
Open your heart, and begin to heal slowly at your own pace. Forgiveness comes first which allows you room to be heard and not be alone in your pain. Share what you're going through with a family member or close friend. This is when the healing process begins. It takes one step at a time. There is no race. What you went through is very difficult, and will not go away overnight, But you will overcome.
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