Maybe I should have waited!
I get several emails a day, about this very subject. People meeting their boyfriends, husbands or dating partners at the wrong time.
I have to tell you something. There isn't a wrong time. If you have spent more than a day with that specific individual than it wasn't the wrong time. It was with the wrong person. The unfortunate part, as time gets away from us we have invested our time and thoughts into a relationship hoping it grows. This is when several mistakes take place. We go into all things in life with good intentions and an open mind that the same will be returned to us. People have mistaken this as timing playing the major factor in our lives. But in reality, not everyone we meet will treat us with kindness and give us the love we deserve.
Think about this for a minute. Do you know someone who is in a relationship hoping that things will change even though they are mistreated, or abused in some way? They are hanging in there for dear life, that some kind of miracle is going happen to change their relationship.
You become lost for words.
In any new relationship, we have to stop and consider if our feelings are being met first, and if there is a mutual understanding, that we both want the same thing. This is a big deal when it comes to taking any relationship to the next level. Remember how important love is to you. We can not spend all of our time and effort making someone happy and feeling empty at the same time. You are working way too hard to keep someone who doesn't know how valuable you are and is not reciprocating the same way.
In some cases, we forget what we would like out of a relationship, and throw ourselves to the side. We become frustrated, lonely and not loved. We created a one-sided relationship with our selves. While our partners are taking all of our energy, and have depleted our time, and start mistreating us. We need to take a look at how we feel about ourselves. How much are we willing to endure before we tell ourselves that this is not for me. You are in charge of that.
There is one thing I would like to share with you that everyone forgets. As women, we already know when we are putting too much of our time into a man we love, that doesn't love us back. We are heading down a painful path. We can not keep up this game, it is exhausting.
To answer your question about meeting people at the wrong time is false. The answer is, how much time will you hold on to a relationship that's wrong.
Please Please, don't forget you hold the power over your own life. No one has the right to harm, or mistreat you. Continue being an amazing woman, and share your kindness and love, but extend it to the ones who love you and respect you and enjoy everything about you.
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